The Fast Track To Emotional Intelligence: A Natural Leadership Training To Bring You Home to Your True Nature.
Core Empowerment, a six day Gnana Yoga retreat, could also be categorized as an intensive devoted to releasing the ideas and beliefs we have, that limit our possibilities and choices. These preconceived notions are what deprive us of a true present and of any lasting enjoyment and success in life. More than thirty years of results have proven that Core Empowerment can indeed point people to fully experiencing not who, but what they are, which is usually quite different from who they thought they were. The retreat has been lead in different countries since 1989 and has also gone through a number of refinements. Yet the basic structure has always remained the same.
The first two days involve partner exercises of great depth, which help each participant clear the emotional charge of unconscious withheld memory, which acts as an impediment by filtering our ability to be fully present and aware. During days three – five, the main practice of the retreat is introduced and integrated. It allows the participants the opportunity to peel away the filters of memory that rob us of a mindful true presence and experience life as if for the first time. Core Empowerment is a one-of-a-kind process that combines the eastern perspective of non-duality with a western spirit of “can do”. In the same way, it combines the best of eastern wisdom with the insights of western psychology. Ultimately, Core Empowerment uses the mind to go beyond the mind which in the East would be referred to as the emptiness and total fullness of being, yet in a mundane sense could be referred to in one way as the realm of pure potential.
Core Empowerment refers to the natural skills and energy within us that are released when we cease disregarding them because we are too busy, enmeshed in ideas and concepts that totally conceal our own inherent and unique source of genuine power: the awareness behind all thought. This 5-day retreat could be likened to an intensive which takes you back on a journey of self-discovery, through the maze of long held unconscious self-images, emotions and memories which have been suppressed and are now brought to full conscious awareness, to complete your experience of them; allowing you to finally come home to the creative innocence of the wise. What is revealed is the man or woman who is able to joyously live life from Heart, whose senses become even more finely tuned to deal effortlessly with worldly matters when no longer impeded by preconceived notions.
For most of the participants, this insight into their true nature comes as a great relief. They feel genuinely empowered. Moreover, they find that their attitude toward daily life changes dramatically and with that change, their life also shifts for the better.
Many varied processes are introduced that help you get back into the driver’s seat and to take charge when needed, yet without the added burden of identification with “doership”. At the same time, they help you relax into your natural ability to let go, so that you can allow life to be your guide. Consequently, your new-found initiative does not turn into yet another frantic and frustrating pursuit of far-away goals. The natural leadership qualities that arise, help you to seize the moment and make the appropriate decisions that are called for.
The retreat, through the awareness it evokes, assists you in effortlessly dissolving the kinds of blocks, which could otherwise hinder the unfolding of your own inherent creativity. Core Empowerment benefits all areas of your life, your career as well as your relationship with others. It also affects the way you take care of your health with greater understanding and presence, as well as the way you perceive yourself. From your own direct experience, unlike the intellect which has to figure everything out through comparison, you instead begin to perceive everything with very different eyes, and allow your uncanny heart intelligence, with its superior ability to directly perceive any situation all at once, to guide you where you need to go.
You come home to your own true awakened (Buddha) nature which has a much more encompassing ability than your intellect or the ego, (both of which are stuck in a subject/object relationship with reality and the fear of separation this evokes) to perceive our true state of oneness with all of creation. The compassion this state of awareness evokes for oneself and all others, brings with it, an almost unprecedented lightness of being as we come home at last to the spaciousness, the peace and inner joy of living from the very emptiness and simultaneous fullness of being.
The words “emotional intelligence” have become something of a catch phrase. More than being a trendy expression, they sum up the center focus of current leading edge exploration into the nature and workings of mind and cognition. They indeed point to the root of some key fundamental questions: “Why is it that so much of what our minds do, remains below the threshold of conscious awareness? What does this large degree of non-conscious cognition thought processing and ensuing action mean for our experience of the world? Why is our subconscious mind so all pervasive? Why do we have recurring experiences of being at the effect of the subconscious mind, to the degree that access to natural states of simple happiness seem to continuously elude us?
Leading western psychologists, such as best-selling author Daniel Goleman and the late Francisco Varela, a professor of cognitive science at the Ecole Polytechnique in Paris have worked with several prominent Tibetan Buddhist Rinpoches on the subject of emotional intelligence and the psychology of cognition. Besides presenting a thorough investigation into the cognitive processes, this ongoing dialogue sheds light on ways that we can successfully deal with destructive emotions and other forms of unconscious behavior patterns. This approach has been a major focus for practitioners of Buddhist meditation ever since the Buddha launched his direct investigation into the workings and nature of the mind, more than 2,500 years ago.
Previously in several labs in the US, research was conducted to uncover the secrets of cognition. Through the most advanced western technologies (for example, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation or TMS), scientists came to realize that we do not see the world as it actually is, but only in terms of what we already know of the world. In other words, in states of non-conscious cognition (which is where most people are), memory shapes or dictates all of what we can perceive. We are thus deprived of free will and free agency.
The moment we find access to being conscious and aware in the present moment, free will and free agency are restored. Brain scans using the same TMS technology also show how the practice of different forms of meditation, learned through long retreats, in fact influence perception in such a way, that humans can rise above an otherwise unconscious existence. For all human beings, this step into conscious awareness is of primary importance for it enables us to live a happy, balanced and fulfilled life.
The question now is, how can this be accomplished? The traditional Buddhist approaches to the restoration of free will and conscious awareness require a long and arduous discipline of meditation over the span of many years. As the results of Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation with experienced meditators suggest, these techniques do indeed work.
The data collected at the E.M. Keck Laboratory for Functional Brain Imaging and Behavior on the Madison Campus of the University of Wisconsin, USA, demonstrate as much. The drawback is, in the past, these techniques were invented, taught and elucidated mainly by monks and other people who were in a position to live a life of seclusion and contemplation. In other words, in their traditional approaches these techniques are time-consuming and require years of dedicated effort.
The question now is, can we accomplish the same? Can the average person achieve comparable levels of conscious awareness as do Buddhist meditators after twenty or more years of practice? Living in the world, going about his or her business, and taking care of the many obligations that are taken for granted by any ordinary socially active person? The answer is, “Yes, to some degree with the right motivation, commitment and discipline, it is possible.”
There are approaches to conscious awareness and emotional intelligence that are geared toward direct recognition of what is so in the moment which bypass the mental processing via memory. EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) clearly remove the charge that past memory holds over the entire body. One pertinent example of its use in this regard, is the Core Empowerment retreat, developed by Dr. Paula Horan in the eighties which is also based on several other time-tested meditative techniques.
In the Core Empowerment retreat, destructive emotions and unconscious behavior patterns themselves become the object of our exploration. Basically, from an Eastern perspective, this is the sum total of incomplete karma, of which there are only two kinds: incomplete desire and incomplete resistance (usually to traumas which we were unable to process with full conscious awareness to complete our experience of them). The emotions and unconscious reactions incomplete karma evokes, is not judged, and neither are they rejected. No effort is made to push them away. Instead, participants are guided to directly feel them, and to cultivate a sense of exploration about every circumstance or perception that arises, whether seemingly “comfortable” or “uncomfortable”, “happy” or “sad”, “good” or “bad”. This direct feeling and recognition brings about a sudden shift in perception. One of the tools used to complete the experiences of long withheld karma is EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), that literally clear sometimes lifetimes of withheld karma that literally take birth with each incarnation if they are not fully felt and completed by the end of each life.
Because EFT affords us the ability to complete the experiences of long withheld resistance to painful memories, we cease to identify with the destructive emotions or behavior patterns they evoke. Although we can notice and sense their presence clearly as they are brought to the surface to be felt and let go of, we simultaneously integrate without a shadow of a doubt, that this is not who we are, but only a conditioned response with which we came to identify. This can be perceived by the sense of spaciousness that is evoked as deep trauma is completed on an energetic level. Even a person’s face often undergoes a dramatic visually apparent change as the countenance clearly relaxes when major issues are completed.
Subsequently, once the link of illusory identification (attachment) with suffering is broken through noticing and completing the experiences of long withheld karma, we are freed and regain a sense of spaciousness from the density of resisted experience. We cease to judge ourselves and the same old destructive emotions or behavior patterns that were evoked by unconscious resistance, cease to rule us. In other words, often in the 6 days that the retreat takes, the same depth of balance and lucidity is achieved, which through more traditional approaches might take years to accomplish. This fast track is made possible through a combination of fine-tuned techniques and extensive experience on the part of the facilitator in helping others complete long withheld trauma.
Depending on the individual, over thirty years of experience has shown that participation in three to five, six-day retreats over a two to three year period can help to stabilize one’s ability to transcend the filter of memory and live a true present. Because all emotions are reactions to thoughts, the ability to live in the present without clinging to passing thoughts, automatically gives one the ability to transcend the pull of emotion. The result is a greater degree of equanimity in all situations, whether “positive” or “negative” and the emotional intelligence of a life lived fully from Heart.
Core Empowerment: For the first time in my life, I’ve realized that words can’t fully capture what I experienced with Paula. When I first opened her book, it felt like unlocking magic! I witnessed remarkable and beautiful shifts in my life that were beyond explanation. Core empowerment was disorienting in the most wonderful way. If I told you that you could see alternate versions of yourself with crystal clarity, would you believe me? You’ll have to, because that’s exactly what I experienced. It was truly surreal. No one can replace Paula or the unique space she creates. She has provided me with immense comfort and guided me through the suffering I endured, helping me emerge from it. She illuminated the shadows I needed to confront to become a whole person. In my lifetime, I have not encountered a teacher as extraordinary as Paula. My long-held prayers for a great teacher were answered.
I came across Dr. Paula's book ‘Core Empowerment" in 2011. The concepts and exercises were well explained and reading it inspired me to want to work with her in person. Luckily, I got the opportunity in May 2024. These were six of the most power packed days in my life which enabled me to confront the key issues which we usually ignore. The program contained different practices; morning Shamatha meditations and Tibetan Yoga, readings from the books of various enlightened masters, observation exercises dealing with desire and resistance and ego attachment to our victim number. For those of us who were beginners to meditation, she helped us experience that we can easily quiet the mind by simply putting all of our attention on our thoughts and that by commanding them to come, they simply disappear! Ultimately she lead us to experience on a deeper level, that there is no seperate self and that what is inside, is exactly what is reflected on the outside; that all of life is coming from our own mind! Through persistent introspection and inquiry, we began to grasp that everything we normally perceive as coming from the outside due to the five senses, is actually coming from the inside. Literally all of life is our own projection! Although all of the exercises, combined with the saturation of potent texts on non dual awareness was intense, Paula made the concepts understandable and the pace she set somehow enabled us the glimpse of realisation at regular intervals Thanks a lot for such an amazing program which helped us to reconnect with THAT which we truly are No more subject, no more object. Ahhhhh